Pleasuring Yourself
By Wicked Temptress

Masturbation, you do it no matter how many times you may or may not get laid. It's exciting, relieves stress, and it feels good. Let's face it, nobody knows how to touch you better than yourself, right? Well, while you may know where to touch yourself and when, perhaps you can learn some new techniques on what can feel even better than your normal routine. In this article I intend to do just that. So sit back, drop your pants, and let's get to work!  Let's start by discussing why you feel the urge to masturbate all the time. The yearning to make yourself cum frequently originates from your body wanting you to release the semen that has built up over time so that it can produce more. The most common four ways this can be done is through: masturbation, wet dreams, sex, and a blowjob. However, the relief of built up semen is most commonly done through masturbation (you may use the Mens-Network models as an aid!). There have been many old wives tales, or myths (if you prefer that term) regarding the subject of masturbation. Some myths are as ridiculous as "If you masturbate too much you'll grow hair on your palms". They don't stop there either, still others claim that masturbation can lead to cancer of the testicles, or can even effect your potential to one day have children. If any of these things concern you, remember that myths are just that, myths. Masturbation is completely safe, and very healthy for you to do. If for some reason you still find yourself concerned, then perhaps bringing your concerns to the attention of a doctor may ease your mind. If you're concerned that masturbation may label you as a loner or a loser, then take a deep breath and relax. Everybody masturbates. Married men, single men, even the men who sleep with a different woman every night. If anyone tells you that they do not masturbate then I would dare say theyare lying, more than likely because they are ashamed to admit to it. Society as a whole is to blame for this self conflicting guilt. For years people have been taught that masturbation is wrong for some reason or another and shouldn't be done. It may take years to completely undo the harm that this train of thought has done and bring light to the realization that masturbation is healthy, normal, and the fact that everybody does it.  Masturbation shouldn't be something you're afraid to talk about, or admit you do. Many men tend to keep quiet on the subject altogether. This is especially true when it comes to their girlfriends or wives. What these men fail to understand is that watching a man masturbate is actually quite a big turn on for most women. In fact, while watching him masturbate, she will more than likely become inspired to masturbate as well (which can make for a highly erotic time for both).   So let's get to those techniques, shall we!? The most obvious, and simplest way to masturbate is to firmly (but not too tight) take your cock in hand and move your hand up and down until you cum. There are various ways to do this particular type of masturbation, don't be afraid to experiment.  Most men use lubricant when they masturbate. Lubrication prevents your penis from becoming sore and/or raw. Plus, I hear it also makes the sensation of masturbation much more enjoyable. Men that are uncircumcised may not have the need or desire to use lubrication. It's completely up to you. There are many different types of lubrications to choose from, each with a different texture and sensation. The most common choices have been baby oil, vaseline, K-Y jelly, and lotion.  If your going to have sex after masturbation, then you may wish to reconsider using an oil based products such as vaseline. Oil based products ruin condoms, which obviously would defeat your attempt at safe sex. So keep that in mind when selecting your lubricant. Also, you don't want to use soap as a lubricant because it will dry out and irritate your skin. I have also heard it said that soap will sting if it comes into contact with your urethra. Which I imagine would not be a very pleasant sensation to experience, especially while in the middle of masturbation.  The pressure and pace you masturbate with will depend on what makes you feel best. Everybody is different, and different times may call for different stroking paces and/or lighter or firmer pressure applied to the penis. These things may also depend upon how intense your fantasy becomes. Concentrating your efforts on the base of your cock is one way to delay cumming too quickly. A good tip to remember when you want to keep your penis erect. Other sources of stimulation may enhance masturbation, such as playing with your nipples, or using toys.  Toys that can be used during masturbation include (but are not limited to) a dildo, vibrator, anal beads, and butt plug. It's a good idea to use lubrication with these products, and any anal stimulation you may engage in. If you do plan on experimenting in anal stimulation then remember to be very gentle. The inner walls of the rectum are easily ripped. Also be careful about what toy you select. All toys should have a thick base or a handle, not only because it makes them easier to hold on to and control, but because they could very easily get sucked into the rectal cavity. In some cases, retrieval of these toys require surgery.  But don't let that scare you away from anal play, or exploring other parts of your body which may enhance the sensation of masturbation for you. Sources of stimulation other than stroking your cock can enhance your pleasure more than you may think.  In closing, I would just like to repeat (because it's so important for everyone to understand) that masturbation is a natural, healthy, exciting part of every human life. There are many benefits to masturbation that each and every one of us should enjoy. Don't let myths, and the shame of others prevent you from enjoying these benefits for yourself.